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It is about putting the relationship, which hopefully will grow into a marriage before the children, or at least giving it equal status.There is a difference between neglecting one’s children and making the primary relationship in a home between a mother and her children instead being between her and her mate.I’m not saying a mother should put her child 2nd to any guy.What I’m saying is when there is a committed healthy (non abusive) relationship, your mate is important too.Neuharth also notes that while it’s common for men to want to date women younger than themselves, if there's too much of an age gap, it's a sign he’s probably not looking for an equal partner in the relationship. One had to be held back by other members of his family when he tried to assault me. All I heard was “Queenie” this, and “Queenie” that. From a mother’s perspective, let me give you a reason why I would put my child over a man.If the person is single, what else would they put in their photos, but their dog, etc? So, I don’t even read profiles that say, “..children will always come first.” I think kids are really cool, but I don’t need to be in a relationship where I will always com second. This is by far not the only one, but it is the easiest to explain.
What he/she’s looking for: Requiring too much or too little are both red flags. If the person really doesn’t care, they’re probably looking for a “date,” not a relationship, or he or she may be looking to scam you. When I’ve dated women with children, you can’t believe some of the things parents have called me. I used to date a loser who “worshiped” his supposed ex. Thank God I dumped the POS and now I’m dating a decent guy!I carried them in my womb, and they need someone to raise them right.Not a woman who will go “Oh honey, mommy is so sorry your sick, but I’m still going to take you to your grandmother’s because “so-and-so” will be upset with me for ‘standing him/her up’.” If you’re so arrogant as to think that you should be more important than any child, then you really have no business dating a mother.For one, my child has been in my life for, let’s say, two years.During those two years I was a single mother, or even an estranged mother. See, there is always the possibility of you dropping me for some reason or another, but that child?