Husband s sex chat divorce
Krista J.'s husband is hanging out with another woman. "He told me they are just friends, but he has been leaving me to go hang out with her," she frets.
He emailed me back (I couldn't talk to him on the phone) and said it was 'just chat'.
OP just found evidence of using the site on her H's history, so she doesn't know how often he's been on there, and she doesn't know if he's done anything other than look.
If my DH was regularly spending time on those kinds of sites I wouldn't like it either, and would expect him to stop. He is in his early 50s and I'm in my late 30s and he has definately been going through a mid-life crisis - we've even laughed about it.
Ideally, they say, the members of a couple should be able to maintain individual friendships with the opposite sex, but in reality, a friendship like the one Krista's husband is developing is often a slippery slope.
Friendship can lead to flirtation, and what once seemed harmless can grow and grow. Here, readers share some ground rules for a spouse's opposite-sex friendships.